February 2012
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Boyfriends, and your "ex"s.
Ninety percent of the time they will not get along, they won’t even talk to each other, hell they might even despise each other. Doesn’t matter if it’s some guy you barely talked to or even had feelings for. If something use to be there, we will not like them. Guys are super self-conscious. If anything is a threat to losing you we automatically resist and want you to be away from...
Sleep.
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I use to be so self-conscious,
that I would barely ever smile. Guess part of it was cause I was so overweight I would be scared that my cheeks would look too big, yeah stupid i know. The other part was just I had no confidence at all.
I don’t need nudez, everyone just automatically strips when they see me.
Who's from the bay?
Do I even exist to you?
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The giver.
A Giver is focused on fulfilling other peoples’ needs. They believe they’ll get love and connection in this way. They usually give too much. But they seldom ask for what they want or need. So they get back too little — since others do not have a Giver’s “psychic” ability to see needs. Eventually they break into anger, or just as easily, tears. They, and their partners, get overwhelmed by these...
Commitment may be more than a word.
Moving through levels of commitment is like a dance. Timing is everything. Many couples do not move forward in perfect synchrony. This does not have to be a sign that something is wrong. You have differing internal clocks. He/she is simply dancing a bit slower, that’s all.
"I will always be there for you."
It really means, I’m going to be there for you until we stop talking. I mean that’s just the honest truth. We use that line but we never commit to it. It’s just impossible to “always” be there for someone. Something always happens, something always comes up, and as fast as they said those words, they are gone.
“I will always be there for you.”
Don't be afraid!
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Holding your hand.
A kiss can last a couple seconds or minutes, but holding your hands? I can hold your hands for hours on end. I don’t ever want to let go. The instant our finger tips brush we are connected, physically and mentally. There’s no longer a you or a me, there is only us. All eyes on us, our greatest sign of affection, jealousy flowing through others, and not cause of our looks, but cause the fact that...
Guys are not mind readers.
Sometimes you ladies need to voice yourself. Guys are stupid. Yes, I can admit it we are dumb. We don’t see your “obvious” signs. Most the time it’s hard for us to tell how you feel or what you’re thinking. I don’t care what any guy says. Only those fake ass guys claim that they understand everything about a female. I mean we can make assumption, but we are mostly never for-sure.
Fuck it,
time to hug my pillow, and fucking force my self to sleep.
Like if you're still up.
Visible hickeys,
are so disrespectful. To yourself and to the person you are giving them to…
I like being called adorable..
It's always good from the start,
When a relationship begins with a bang, it’s tempting to think you’ve met your soulmate. But a breath-taking start must be followed by genuine staying power, or soulmates soon turn into cell mates, then ex-mates.
The one sided relationship,
it won’t stand. Love that works is the result of both partners putting energy and intention in building a mutual relationship. This includes being around when things aren’t so great, not so comfortable, and not so happy — and being willing to stay the course towards finding a path that leads back to positive love, fulfillment, passion, joy, and all the other things we truly want in a...
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After highschool,
I really want to move to socal…
I really hope people like the things i write..
It's always good from the start,
When a relationship begins with a bang, it’s tempting to think you’ve met your soulmate. But a breath-taking start must be followed by genuine staying power, or soulmates soon turn into cell mates, then ex-mates.
The one sided relationship,
it won’t stand. Love that works is the result of both partners putting energy and intention in building a mutual relationship. This includes being around when things aren’t so great, not so comfortable, and not so happy — and being willing to stay the course towards finding a path that leads back to positive love, fulfillment, passion, joy, and all the other things we truly want...
Being too scared,
to tell them that you love them.
Say hi new followers,
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I wanna hang out with a group of people I’ve never hung out with before.
Respect.
I swear to god, if you someone is taken, or is talking to someone have some respect. Real talk. Don’t try to get at them, don’t try to flirt with them, and don’t go telling people that you have any sort of feelings for them. Home wrecking is on some immature shit. Just the fact that you are trying to break up something that is good gives you an ugly personality.
Instant turn on,
nice hair.
Listen
Listen
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“It hurts too much seeing them with someone else.”
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It's never enough,
For some people it’s really just never enough. You can do so much for them, give them everything, and still they still want more. I know people can be selfish, but how can you also be so inconsiderate. Why do everything for someone, when they won’t put forth the effort back. It’s only good to put other peoples’ feelings ahead of yours if they will do the same back.
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The "right one."
We spend so much time looking for the right ones, that we look past the ones who have been right there from the start. They’ve always been there for you, they stuck by your side when you were hurt, they always listened to you when you had no one else, so why? Why do we keep looking past them? Is it fear that once we lose them we won’t have them back? You know what I say? Fuck that,...
I'm the jealous type.
I can admit it. I’m super self-conscious… I constantly need you to remind me how much you care about me. I worry about others stealing you away. I always feel like I never do anything right. I just really need reassurance.
Like this if you're up!
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I don't care much for "boppers"/"hypebeasts"...
The only thing that bothers me, is when they try to dance. Especially these pretty boys, or those girls who claim to “dance.” I mean really? I love dance and dancing is for anyone. But please don’t just do it for the fucking hype. Go buy some more shoes or clothing or something.
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I was never given opportunities, I’ve always worked for them